Ready to Own Your Identity and Story While Learning to Unconditionally Love Your Life?
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Hey there!
I’m Ailie (Hayley without the H),
I help high achieving women, who are motivated to live life to the fullest, find happiness, independent from professional progress, through creating quality friendships and a fulfilling social life all while owning who they are at their core.
Summarised, I’m an identity coach and happiness mentor.
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Identity has always been a topic close to my heart.
As an international / interracial adoptee, chronic illness warrior and Highly Sensitive Person (click here to learn more about HSPs), the importance of identity has always been apparent. Identity can be split into 4 parts:
- The journey you’ve been through life as a whole so far.
- The experiences that were so groundbreaking they stick out in your mind and you KNOW had a drastic influence on how your life is currently.
- The beliefs you hold about yourself
- The intrinsic part of you that just is. e.g the way you problem solve, how your mind works, quirks that your friends would recognise as being, very you!
Your core identity has created the version of you that EXISTS right now in this moment.
Why does this matter? By discovering and connecting with your core identity, decisions become effortless, boundaries become so much easier and living the life you desire becomes a reality instead of just a dream.
Personally connecting to my core identity was my anchor in the storm of life, it’s guided me to:
1. Being an identity coach and happiness mentor - I’d been volunteering as a mentor for people with chronic illnesses for just under 10 years. I realised that deep down I knew that coaching and mentoring was the direction I wanted my life to take.
2. It’s helped me not only accept my difference and story but OWN them - For starters I’m a chronic illness warrior, an interrracial / international adoptee, I’d lived in 4 countries by the time I was 4 and have moved several times since then (if you need someone to help you create a life in a new place, I’m your person!)
3. It’s allowed me to realise that being a true foodie is in my DNA, it’s helped me reignite my love of travel, it’s shown me that my love of reading and learning is woven into the very fabric of who I am. Not everything about identity has to be so serious, sometimes it’s just about realising you’ve got a little extra passion for something and working more of it into your life.
4. Finally it's connected me to my favourite quote and words I strive to live by:
"Dancing With Life Makes Everything Sweeter."
Isn't that the goal in life? To feel in flow, happy and know you're going in the right direction?
